If your wedding invitation says “ceilidh after dinner”, expect Scottish social dancing. The word sounds like “KAY-lee”. You can learn the steps on the night. The trick is to get up while the caller is gathering people, even if the band hasn’t played a note yet.
When to leave your seat
Listen for the caller, the person on the microphone who organises the dancing. They’ll tell you where to stand and who to face, then talk you through the movements before the music starts. If you wait for the tune before joining in, you’ll miss the walk-through.
Can I come on my own?
Many public ceilidhs welcome solo dancers. Listen for the number of people the caller asks for. In The Dashing White Sergeant, for instance, two groups of three face each other. If you see a couple looking around, try “Do you need a third?” Once there are six of you, join hands in a circle for the opening figure. The caller will take you through the rest.
Do I need a kilt?
Trousers or a dress are fine for an informal ceilidh. At a wedding, go by the couple’s dress code. If you’re wearing a kilt and jacket, try a turn and a few steps backwards at home with your shoes on. Your heels should stay put. If I were packing a change of shoes, I’d take a pair I’d already spent an evening dancing in.
